Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Skills Required in Approaching Women Online

Author: Stacey Zimmerman
There is a world of difference in approaching women in an online environment compared to real life dating. The effective modus operandi to be used in both the online and offline environments differ simply because there is no interaction on a personal level in an online environment. This calls for the adoption of a more thoughtful approach, quite contrary to the popular belief of playing it casually on the dating site.You may not be aware of this fact, but the old maxim "First Impression is the Last Impression!" still holds true, especially in the online environment. So, what's your first impression when you are looking to attract the woman of your dreams on an online dating website? Well, it's your profile that gets the first attention of the prospective interested women.So, the first skill required to approach women online is to develop a killer profile detailing the kind of person you are and the kind of woman you are looking for. Don't create a fake profile that can lead to problems in justifying the details mentioned in the profile. Be honest and try not to reveal your real name and contact details. These things can be revealed at a later stage when both of you are comfortable with each other. Remember, your profile reflects your personality and is any day preferred over the appearance. Moreover, you should not be looking forward to meet a girl who gives more weight to your appearance than your overall personality that is truly reflected in the profile.The second skill you need to approach a woman of your choice online is the skill to communicate clearly and positively. No one likes a negative personality. If you can't express yourself confidently and positively, it could be a big handicap. Even if you have a negative side to it, you can easily say it with confidence and if you are talented enough, can turn it into a positive aspect of your overall personality. For instance, if you are a heavy smoker, you can attribute it to the workload and the compulsion of the work culture you are presently engaged in. You can also mention that you are working on de-addiction in the right earnest. A desire to abandon a vice impresses most women who are looking for a serious relationship

.The third vital skill required to approach a woman online is to avoid the obscenities, as they are considered inappropriate and a sure sign that you are a loser in real life. If you feel irritated or angered during the conversation, be as polite as you can be in expressing your resentment. But never use obscenities while chatting online with women.A good humor online or offline is always welcome. Almost every woman loves a man that can bring good clean humor to her face. The best part of adding humor to the conversation is you can also flirt a little without offending her because every humor is supposed to be taken lightly.

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